10 Things I Wish I knew Before Having a Baby

Things I wish I knew before having a baby

This post is in collaboration with Gaviscon

I’m going to put it right out there and say that I did not enjoy being pregnant but, in saying that, I also didn’t not enjoy it. Does that make sense? To put it plainly, I hear women say how  much they loved being pregnant, well…I didn’t love it but I didn’t hate it, either.

Pregnancy to me was taking it day by day. No book was going to tell me exactly what I was going to experience because I was not the same as everyone else, everyone’s pregnancy experience is so different. What I do remember is marvelling at the little person that was growing inside me, the person I could feel kicking, moving, fluttering. It seriously made me smile on the inside every day, even when my then employment stressed me to no end.

Looking back in hindsight is something I don’t do often because I’m a big believer in looking ahead, the past is something we can never change and there’s no point wasting our time pondering on it. However, in this post I want to share the 10 things I wish I knew before having a baby because…well, it’s just me reminiscing and an opportunity to share things that first time mums may benefit from.

So here they are.

  1. I wish I knew about how important it is to look after your pelvic floor. Let’s just say that running and jumping on the trampoline has never been the same.
  2. I wish I knew that my baby would come early so I could have finished work earlier and prepared more meals.
  3. I wish I knew that when everyone said ‘now that you’re on maternity leave, relax as much as possible’ they were speaking the truth and there was a reason they were giving me that advice!
  4. I wish I knew that severe indigestion in pregnancy was a thing and that it would most certainly sneak up on me one day during my third trimester with absolutely no Gaviscon in sight!
  5. I wish I knew that there was such thing as severe back pain during pregnancy and that I had strengthened my lower back muscles so I didn’t have to wear a brace.
  6. I wish I knew that having a summer baby would mean my feet and legs would resemble that of an elephant.
  7. I wish I knew that breastfeeding wasn’t as easy as putting a baby on the boob. It is SO much harder than that.
  8. I wish I knew that having a really good quality breast pump was really important and that manually pumping would eventually give me RSI in my hand to the point that I can no longer open things properly.
  9. I wish I knew that I was going to suffer post natal depression for a long time so that I could have been better prepared and not thing that it was something that would never happen to me.
  10. I wish I knew that once my baby was here, it was normal not to feel a gushing feeling of love and that for some (like me) it would take time and the love I would eventually feel for my son was unlike any love I’d ever felt before.

What are some things you wish you knew before pregnancy?

Eva Lewis (The Multitasking Woman)

Eva Lewis (The Multitasking Woman)

Eva is the Editor and Owner of The Multitasking Woman. She always has her fingers in many different pies but wouldn't have it any other way. Eva is a freelance writer, a social media manager, a Mum to her six-year-old son, one-year-old daughter, six chickens and Benny the dog and wife to Mr G. They all live happily in their little worker's cottage in Ipswich, Queensland, Australia.
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  1. August 14, 2015 / 6:51 am

    That they become teens – and what that means. Enjoy that cushy baby &toddler stuff – and work on your tribe – it’s invaluable in the teen years….

  2. August 14, 2015 / 7:56 am

    I wish I had known what SPD was- man, that was a rude shock! Great list, Eva!

  3. August 14, 2015 / 9:59 am

    I wish I knew that cuddling my baby to sleep when she was little wasn’t going to ruin her sleep patterns for the rest of her life. Enjoy those baby snuggles! Also, I wish I knew to trust my own instincts and just go with the flow. Every baby is different and what suits one baby isn’t necessarily going to work for another. Oh and yes to #6 – my last baby was the only summer pregnancy I had so I was in for a rude shock!

  4. August 14, 2015 / 10:57 am

    Yep to all of these! I wish I hadn’t listened to all the advice! I drove myself nuts second guessing everything I did. I wish I’d fed my baby to sleep instead of trying the feed play sleep thing… it never worked and I killed my back.

  5. August 14, 2015 / 4:40 pm

    That sometimes you can truly dislike your own child. You may still love them dearly, but there are definitely times when you strongly dislike them. Thankfully these moments are far and few between and are more likely to occur in the teenage years.

  6. August 16, 2015 / 9:55 pm

    I wish I had know that ‘morning sickness’ was just a name and not at all a description of what MS actually is! Also, I was very shocked that I wasn’t the glowy-happy-mother-to-be that seems to be portrayed everywhere. I bet my husband wishes he had known I was about to become a moody monster!

  7. September 4, 2015 / 9:01 am

    Thanks for sharing! As a soon-to-be-mum, it’s so helpful to get your honest insights.